Your wish for the last quarter of 2023
As
soon as I opened the email, the blog hop "Your wish for the last quarter
of 2023" caught my attention immediately. I was considering writing down
my thoughts and sharing them with you all. Including today, there are 98 days
till the end of the year 2023.
Why
shouldn't it have been interesting during the first half of the year? Every new
year brings with it fresh inspiration, anticipation, and a path to follow.
Similarly, the first half of 2023 has been spent contentedly and calmly.
I've
learned a lot about how to prioritize my needs as a person and how to manage my
emotions in relationships alongside how to be a productive mum. There is always
something to learn, but how much time and effort you are willing to invest will
determine what you learn. This year, as I continued on my road to becoming both
a digital creator and a blogger, I worked on my blog and engaged in multiple collaborations.
I
have a lot of wishes that I'd like then to come true, but right now am focusing on
cultivating my gratitude to achieve what I actually want in life. My specific
wish for the final quarter of 2023 is "to Conceive naturally"
for my second bundle of joy. The moment feels right now to give my little
princess a younger sibling. Every time she spots a tiny infant in the park, she
anticipates it and becomes excited.
Similar
to any other woman, who might be considering this, you can have several
thoughts prior to making pregnancy plans. What if I am unable to handle the
added responsibilities? What if my younger child feels unappreciated? I'll have
to deal with all of those difficulties, such as restless nights, heartburn,
headaches, acidity problems, and so forth. My entire physique will shift for
the time being, once more. Will I be able to love myself?
Before
accepting my new desire, I thought about a few things. For example, am I
prepared to welcome a second child? Am I psychologically and physically
prepared for the same? My husband, too, is he prepared for the same? Are we
able to support the addition of another child financially? Am I Prepared to
Take on additional Responsibilities?
She
is currently 4.5 years old and asks, "Mumma, when will my sibling
arrive?" I wish to join him/her in play. I simply say "Soon"
since this makes my heart melt. She prayed for the same thing on Janamashtmi
and Ganesh Chaturthi, and she assured me she would take good care of everything
herself if I got her the little one. Seeing how quickly she is developing and
picking up new information overwhelms my heart. She seems to be more eager to
meet the baby than I am, therefore I must not be as excited as she is. I am still preparing myself physically, mentally, and emotionally for the process of trying
to conceive. I'm also busy getting my little one ready for the new arrival.
Consequently,
I also feel discouraged about how I will handle things now that I have a
toddler. Every day, responsibilities expand. I am not the same person I was earlier,
but I have grown significantly in order to multitask. I'm crossing my fingers
and praying for the best. I'm just visualizing everything I desire and sending
out all the positive energy. When I consider how many mistakes I made
throughout my first pregnancy, my heart breaks a little, but we don't learn and
develop without failures and experiences. We learn the most from our
experiences, though. I now pay more attention to both my body and my child.
Yes, I extend a warm invitation to happiness.
I extend the enjoyment. I am eager to start my second pregnancy and want to
relive that joy. Yes! I am willing to experience all the difficulties once
more. I hope to become a mother soon. I realize it's not simple. But it's also
not impossible. Although your heart already knows what you want, you have to
convince your mind.
There
is no going back at this point. There are no wounds, no suffering, and no
sadness. 'A NEW ME' is who I am. All I want is to be at my best. I give myself
permission to forgive myself for all of my errors. I forgive everybody. I no
longer hold expectations for people. I am working so hard to achieve happiness.
I'm looking forward to a long and happy life. To show my young princess that
her mother is a powerful woman, I want to do this. For the chance to see her
smile, I would do everything for her.
Affirmations to stay positive:
1. "I
am open to happiness, and I choose to embrace joy in every moment.
2. I
deserve to be happy, and I attract positivity and happiness into my life
effortlessly.
3. Happiness
flows through me, radiating from my heart and filling my life with love,
laughter, and contentment.
4. I
am a magnet for happiness, and I choose to share my joy with others, spreading
happiness wherever I go."
Note:
I sincerely hope you enjoyed reading my blog. I treated you as a friend by
sharing all of my private ideas. I hope that a lot of women who consider having
a baby later on will read this blog.
“The
best present a mother can offer to her child is to be a mother, and the next
best gift is to give her child a sibling.”- Radhika
“Choice
is yours”
I would also love to know about your latest wish for the last quarter of 2023.
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Such a heartwarming post, Radhika. Welcoming the second child is a turmoil of emotions where you also feel guilty of not attending your first child as you used to do. But as the time comes, everything falls into place.
ReplyDeleteMay your wish for the last quarter of 2023 be granted, bringing you a bundle of joy :)
ReplyDeleteReminds me that yet another year is drawing to a close offering options...
ReplyDeleteSuch a lovely expression of your heart. Wish you good luck and more love to your daughter. May your wish of the last quarter fulfill soon
ReplyDeleteAll the best to the NEW YOU. Honest post. May your wishes for the last quarter be fullfilled soon!
ReplyDeleteMore power to the new you. Get help with the initial months. You will be fine and happy once you settle in the new life. All the best! Always a phone call away.
ReplyDeleteI really envy you girls! I was 19 and pregnant without any clue about what I was in for. Now u have all sorts of advise and tips all over the net and mom bloggers. I had to have my second child as my MIL put pressure on me with emotional blackmail. I am from the sandwich generation. We listened to our elders and now we toe the line for our young kids!
ReplyDeleteWishing you all the best on your new journey. I hope the new year brings more joy for your little one with a sibling to play with. And as you said, women can overcome anything and everything and your affirmations are certainly in tune with your positive mindset.
ReplyDeleteA very heartfelt post. Wishing you all the love and happiness. Preparing the older child for the newborn really helps. Just remember we are not perfect and it is okay to make mistakes.
ReplyDeleteDear Radhika,
ReplyDeleteA big hug to you and what a heartfelt post you penned and I glad that you thought to go for the 2nd pregnancy to gift your first child the pleasure of becoming a sister. I am impressed with the level of confidence that young princess of yours is having to take the best care of her sibling. You are a blessed mom and the one who is yet to come will be blessed with a wonderful mom plus a adorable elder sister. Very soon your princess prayers will be answered and I hope you get the coming soon news before the year ends.
God bless you and your little one.
Much love
Samata
Sending you a big hug dear for your heartfelt post! I'm touched by your decision to give your first child the joy of becoming a sister through a second pregnancy. Your young princess' confidence in caring for her sibling is impressive. Best wishes for your new journey. May the new year bring even more joy to your little ones as they play together. Your affirmations resonate with your positive mindset, showing that women can conquer anything.
ReplyDelete-Anjali
The thought of a second child itself brings memories of the not so right things that happened when I was expecting my first. The moment was beautiful and is still however some of them were just too difficult.
ReplyDeleteRadhika first a hug 🤗 May God bless you for your second pregnancy. I wish you to have happy and exciting new motherhood journey. I had been through and it is quite mix emotion. Enjoy every phase of life
ReplyDeleteYour journey towards a happier life and your willingness to do everything for her happiness are both heartwarming and admirable. Wishing you all the best on this wonderful journey ahead!
ReplyDeleteAwww... so sincere Radhika. I hope your dream comes true. OMG! this year is coming to an end... it just started!!! Having two kids isn’t easy as we want to be the best mother to our kids. I personally feel Motherhood is the most difficult of all things. But with your positivity and outlook I am sure you will overcome all challenges and cherish your 2nd bundle of joy. My best wishes and goodluck to you💝
ReplyDeleteP.S: There is a gap of 4 years between my two girls and when my little one was in the tummy the older was excited n happy that she would have someone to play with... but the opposite happened when she was born... she was expecting a bigger kid whom she could play with right away n not a little one who couldnt move n only slept n slept... hahaha!!! It started then n they still fight like cats n dogs now that they are 14 and 10😛
...Kaveri
It is tough to stay sane with a toddler home. It took me 4 years to come out of the PPD. I am so happy that you have found your way back to self 😘
ReplyDeleteThe post is straight from the heart. Wishing you all the love, Radhika. Hugs!
ReplyDeleteMay be embrace motherhood and enjoy with your little ones and may all your wishes come true.
ReplyDeleteBeing a second-time Mom would be a completely different ball game and a whole new ride, saying this from experience. Wish your new bundle of joy soon makes its presence felt. Good luck and lots of happiness!
ReplyDeleteNot a mom yet but may your wish come true. It was truly heartwarming to read this post!
ReplyDeleteSuch a positivity filled post! Wishing you all the best and sending lots of love you and your babies.
ReplyDeleteBest wishes, Radhika. I am waiting for the good news to arrive soon. Though I have only one child, I can say this that whatever comes your way, you can handle it. Stay positive and wishing you loads of good luck.
ReplyDeleteI'm so inspired me to do my own last quarter wishes as well. I hope you well in achieving all these wishes by the end of the year!- MommyWithAGoal
ReplyDeleteCongratulations🎉 dear .... I wish your last quarter wish to be true....
ReplyDeleteI'm reading this after many months... Did your wish come true?
ReplyDeleteNoor